Adoptive Parents Returning Children with Problem 2010

This is why they need a pediatrician and a counselor to help to determine what is best Putting the child with the right family may make the behavior problem just go away. The bad behavior might have extended from not fitting in with the new family. It would depend if the child loved their adoptive parents. Maybe.

Is this traumatic to the child? After all it is hard to predict everything and errors do happen, we are only human. The adoptive agency do their best to find good matches, but errors do happen. If the child is violent, then having him with other children will be dangerous.

The bottom line need to be the welfare for the everyone involved. If they get stuck with parents who don't know what to do or have given up, they will most likely be heading down the wrong path and end up in jail. In eighteen short years we need to teach children how to live, love and respect each other. There are just so many different interests and ways to live, that one person may love while another will hate. I couldn't live in an overly religious house either.

Living with a family overly in love with sports would drive me crazy, as I don't really get into sports. I would hate living in a house without my technology, games, and video. We all live a bit differently. They are so many different households. The child would be better off with someone who can reach him.

Should they be stuck with the child? They went through all the time, love, energy, and money only to find they can't reach the child. Think about it from the parent's point of view. They just may not have been the match that the child needed.

Just because a parent doesn't know how to reach a child, doesn't make them a bad parent. Love and caring can take a family so far, but sometimes a child needs more. Behavioral problems may need someone trained to handle the behavior. If you adopt more then one child, there is no reason to put the other children at risk of their lives. The only reason a child should be return is if they are causing harm to themselves or other member in the household.

The adoptive parents need to show proof they have done everything they could including counseling and seeing a pediatrician. Returning a child should not be taken lightly. The child only has eighteen short years to learn how to be behave and a productive member of society. It is not fair to the parent or the child.

What happens when the adoptive parents are at their wits' ends and don't know how to control an out of control child with major behavior problems? They are a kind and loving person who want to share their home and heart with a child. An adoptive parent is not an expert. If the children are going to be harmful to the other member of the household.